Hello everyone,
Self-esteem Meaning
I've been reading a book about Self Esteem lately called 'The Six Pillars of Self Esteem'. I do not take much part in seddit anymore since I think I can handle women quite well at this point. However, this book reminded me of a lot of the 'self improvement' aspects of seddit which I learned back when I was on here.
I would thoroughly recommend this book because I feel like the topic of self esteem is a topic which is often overlooked and over simplified. A lot of the time I think people think back to when it was taught (if it was taught) in high school and ask themselves why such a subject it even matters. After reading the book I have come to understand that most people (including people who I know who are decades older than I am) have no idea about what self esteem is and why it is important. It's best to hear about self esteem from a professional who has studied it for years rather than from people who don't know better or don't understand it.
With this in mind, i'll just pitch it quickly in order to convince you that it's worth reading since I am sure that it will be a great help to those who are just starting their journey here or are in an intermediate sort of stage.
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People often mix up self esteem (Inner Game) with aspects like confidence and the other things synonymous with the word. However, let me assure you that this is not the case. In reality, confidence and it's related aspects stem from having high self esteem.
With this in mind I had better briefly reframe Self esteem so that we can understand what we are talking about. It is likely one of the most important parts of yourself that you could develop whether it be for work or relationships. Seduction included since self esteem is at the heart and soul of seduction.
In a nutshell, having strong self esteem allows people to to the following:
To think, act and function independently and realistically based on the happenings of now and the predictions of the future.
Leads to an understanding of one's own emotions and how to handle them.
Trusting and respecting oneself allowing personal integrity to take hold.
Note that lacking in any of these areas will often lead to certain hinderances in performance and well being. All of these things come from a person with high self esteem.
A lot of problems which people with low self esteem (AFCs) face are problems which are covered in this book. I'll quickly highlight some the problems.
AFCs have problems with;
Understanding that self esteem comes from within and why sourcing it from others doesn't work. (Placing women on a pedestal. Learning to deal with AA)
Finding difference between overconfidence and confidence. (Typical newbie question that I remember writing about when I first started.)
Knowing how, when and why to assert themselves. (Failing shit tests and the like. Not letting themselves be doormats)
Being able trust themselves to make decisions (Taking the lead and to be a leader.)
Overanalysing situations and using too much theory when often using common sense will get you through.1
When it comes to seduction one has to start with oneself. The art of seduction in my opinion not so much about going out and getting the girl you want, it's about changing yourself so that the girls come to you for the right reasons.2
So, for those of you who are new here or for those of you who have studied technique before inner game because it is easy then I recommend you start here. 'The Six Pillars of Self Esteem' has given me great insights and so I want to give this author publicity because I know he can help others as well.
Thank you for reading. I wish every one of you every success in the year to come. :) Happy new year!
Hayley westenra paradiso rarity. 1 I remember there being a lot of this on here, I think this is the biggest weakness of the subreddit.
2 It's important that girls come to you for the right reasons. I.e. They also have issues and want you to solve their depression or whatever for them. If you cant expect this of them they cant expect this from you. If you go out and use seddit techniques regardless of what sort of women you will find then things can easily backfire.